Little girl please part 2

Little girl,
Do you love yourself? Do you have any self worth or self esteem issues? I truly don't think that you love yourself because if you did you will take note and think about these things.
Do you think you are worthy of a man loving you from his heart and soul all while loving God?Do you think that if your man was true he would make you feel great outside of the bedroom? Do you find yourself compromising who you are for the sake of having a man?Have you been in a relationship with him more than 90 days and he has helped to contribute to your happiness in any way?
Now also think of any trust issues you may have, if any of course. Do you have problems with other women being an issue in your relationship like late night calling, texting, popping up at the wrong time. If so that COULD be a pattern and after it has been addressed it shouldn't continue but honestly would you want to be with a man who you can't trust at the begininning of your relationship? What is his relationship patterns? How many women seem to be too crazy about him? How many kids and baby mommas is important also? Does he honestly seem like he needs/wants to be in a relationship or even a friendship?
Now after you have analyzed all of this and you still want to give it a try....ask urself these questions and see if your ready....
What kind of contributiion can you bring into a friendship/relationship with a man? What kind of baggage are you bringing with you i.e...old feelings, baby daddies, drama..A really doesn't need all of that if he's real and trying to be what God designed him to be..What is your bank account like, you need to have your own so you can show a man that you are stong even though you trust him to be the man in the relationship? What is your track record like...if you let everyone test drive you do you think that you will ever be chosen? stop looking for a man...if he is yours and he really wants you, looks at you like you are the only woman in the world, then give him a chance. Also stop looking at the worldly possessions, his hand size and shoe size. If he has a size 14 that doesn't mean he can please you...all it means is that he has a big foot and hopefully he's tall. lol. Lastly, stop thinking that everyman is a captain save a ho...get your own, be comfortable being with yourself and loving yourself and then he will come to you. Don't no man want a broke down girl, with baggage and issues from the past lingering in her life.
I hope you get this lesson and take heed, love him but LOVE YOURSELF FIRST.....