Difference between scorned and crazy

Ok, so I truly realized today that there is a difference between a woman scorned and a woman that is just plain fucking crazy.....now the situation was that a woman that I thought was a scorned woman or whatever hacked into her exes facebook, myspace, and email accounts. She did screen shots of personal threads of her ex and women in his life, now some of the threads were graphic but none the less were personal and only for him and the women he sent them too. He is in a relationship with someone else but this girl, ( I WON'T GIVE HER THE TITLE OF WOMAN BECAUSE CLEARLY SHE DOESN'T DESERVE IT) decided that she wouldn't put the current girls emails out there just the ones with the other women. She then put him on another site just to slander his name. But little did she know she ended up hurting herself because he is still with his girl (it probably made his relationship with her stronger) and the women that she tried to put on blast are still in his life as his friend. Now my question is, why in the hell would she try to put him on blast only to have it back fire on her. Now first of all, she wasted all her time and didn't sleep much because of her misery. Some of the women she tried to put on blast weren't his friends on these various sites but she put out friend requests at like 2 am. She then was the first to respond after everyone was pretty much quiet about the whole situation. But nonetheless she made herself look like a fool because EVERYONE eventually knew it was her. Now what I would like to know is why is she wasting her valuable time worrying about a man that is in FL and she is in CT? Then she is a young woman that is in the military, don't they have men in CT? Don't they have eligible bachelors in her branch of the military? I mean come on now wtf? Has she made the men in her reach not deal with her because she truly is psycho? That is one of those things that make u say hmmmmmmmm......I just don't understand why, damn or maybe brother just put it down like that? I guess she just never had anyone else. She really needs to love herself because trying to validate herself worth in a man will fail her everytime..I hope she gets the help that she truly deserves,.........sighs....